You know you’re old when you find yourself asking “what do kids wear on a night out these days?”
Wait. Let me rephrase that. You know you’re having a Meream moment when you find yourself asking that question as you are about to have a night out.
Now I am not an altogether anti-social being. In fact, I find people fascinating and I have fabulous friends. But I am not your textbook definition of a friendly person. Not that I will not say “hi” to you when we are being introduced. But you cannot expect me to… you know what? This is a getting long-winded and complicated. We need a checklist.
Seems friendly when introduced to people; is not rude. √
Makes small talk.
Tries to make an effort to be with other people
Seems funny but is actually extremely uneasy. √
Seems friendly online. √
Has friends (online and IRL). √
Will sell you out to a rogue agent (if applicable).
To summarize, I do not call every person I meet my BFF but I am, for lack of a better word, nice. Thankfully, I am with someone who understands this part about me. We never do group dates with other couples. When he has friends over, I am not obliged to play hostess (I say “hi” to his friends, of course). I have dinner dates with my friends; he goes for a beer or two with his. We do not feel the need to tag along with whatever the other is doing. Unless, of course, when one’s presence is needed to show support.
Last Saturday, the boyfriend participated in an event that gave opportunities for local clothing lines to sell their merch. I went. Hence, the question on what kids wear for a night out these days. I wore these:
CRAFTED: silver rings / THRIFTED: button down dress worn as top
Did I make friends? No. I did, however, saw some interesting characters.
Jun 21, 2011 @ 18:42:11
I think that checklist applies to me, too. Although I have another to add: I’m fine and comfortable with small groups of people, but I feel uneasy when approaching a room filled with a group of people. Especially young people (i.e. my age). Don’t know why but it’s just so scary for me!
Also, you look great. I would have had no idea what to wear in such a situation!
Jun 21, 2011 @ 21:44:28
I find the big groups of people really scary too and probably wouldn’t be your text book definition of a friendly person either. I like socialising with close friends or in small groups. Anything else makes me feel exhausted.
Jun 21, 2011 @ 22:37:42
We’re twins, somehow…I just know it. My checklist would match yours :)
Jun 21, 2011 @ 23:00:29
I love your little yellow jacket, really nice. I admire your honesty. I’m not exactly all “Dahhling, Sweetie” and declare everybody I’ve just met my BF. Just like you, I’m (I think) pleasant and friendly but I try not to be too pushy…however, if people severely p*** me off, they’ll have an enemy for life – I can hold a grudge like an elephant ;-) Love from London xo
Jun 22, 2011 @ 00:34:51
missed your posts! :)
i feel you meream.. if i had my way, i will just keep quiet and observe or just be plain nonchalant.. ^^
Jun 22, 2011 @ 04:27:48
As always, that is a great ensemble.
Also, congrats to the bf. Very exciting, indeed.